I've always said I'd rather go down on a woman than get a BJ... But yeah, I would rather stick my unit down below than get a blow.

guys that don't ever want a blow job? well that tells me they are unhappy with the unit, self cofident about it, or just over all gay. now don't get me wrong a bj here and there is good but i would not take it over sex every time. just some of the time it would be nice not to do all the work in the hole sex thing.

I know guys who don't BJs because they can't come from them...and to these men, why would you do anything sexual if you weren't going to get your rocks off? Although I still think a BJ as foreplay counts as "getting a BJ."

bj forplay is realy nice and works for me. but just a bj every now and then is also nice. but not to have them at all is just out of the question i think. note that the post was by a women you don't even know if the guy is real or not.

Ok, so not to totally change the subject, sorry. But I've found that the more a guy begs and wants one, the less I want to do it. And if he pushes my head down....GAME OFF.

However, if it's my idea, I am ALL about it.

And I've never met a guy who didn't like them. Weird.

Steph, it does still count.

Amy I am the same way if the guy keeps asking and asking then it turns me off from it and I like foreplay bj's but I am just not one for a full out bj. But just the same I am not all for only going down on me either. I like the foreplay and then most of the time I like to get down to it.

I like the "surprise BJ." You know, when they're not expecting it. Then they're ususally more...er...grateful.

i realy like stepho's idea alot..

I'd be grateful for anything at this point.

My favorite "suprise bj" is when he's driving and I'm shotgun. But that's just me.